Sabtu, 25 September 2010

My theories about why God doesn't approve our pray?

Hello again, this is my first post using english. 
why...?
because recently i just find out that active english is far more difficult than passive english....
though your TOEFL score is above average, you wont be able to talk swiftly, in english of course.

i just realize this when i was petrified in Harvard Interview few months ago... (u know, if i pass this interview i might go to Harvard next year, even its just 3 days, it should mean a lot for me...
hahahha...okay just ikhlas and let it go, at least i know what is wrong with my english...

back to the topic...
recently, i was reading a very good book titled "Quantum Ikhlas". This book tells me a lot about life, and believe or not, this is the most influencing psychological book in my life. FYI, i've read lot of psychological book, its one of my hobby.

this book explains a lot about new theory called the "Ikhlas" theory.
maybe you always wondering 
why most of your prayer doesn't come easy....
why you can't enjoying your life, when your friend had it all with less effort than you had done....
keep asking question.... when the Quran said that Allah will approve all your pray, all you have to do is just ask Him, and he will give you.. as easy is that....

so.... let us see the reality here...
often our pray didnt come true...we have work so hard for our pray to come true...
we even have feel the sensation of successful filling, even before we have what we want...but our prayer never come true in real life...

well... 
i have one theory here. this theory comes from  a lot of sources...
1. my personal experience, maybe you had experienced this too
2. the Quantum Ikhlas book
3. another book, i forgot the tittle, but it tells me the 3 most important surah in Qur'an, its An-Nas, Al-Falaq and Al- Ikhlas

The theory....


First, it comes from my personal experiences.
eversince i was kid, i was experiencing some kind of weird feeling about something that i wish.
it's like i know that this pray will come true and the other won't.
usually the ones that come true, come from some sort way of pray that different from the wont come true.

the come true prayer is the one that your heart wish but your brain doesnt...(hahaha... it's starting to get confusing here...)...
well, what i mean with 'your heart wish but your brain doesnt wish' 
its like when you wish something but when your wish doesnt come true, you dont even regret it...
so, what on earth is this kind of wishes?


example one...
imagine that in a rainy days, you just sit around in your front house.. you just imagining.."well, it's very nice to eat a bakso on this rainy days.... ",then... suddenly...boff..... the abang tukang bakso is just come out from nowhere and your wish is come true...
the point is....
1. Will you desperately disappointed when the abang tukang bakso wont come out?
2. Will eat the bakso in that rainy day give you some kind of proud feeling, so you will eagerly talking about to your friend the next day?
3. Will eating bakso in the rainy days will makes u arrogant?( sebenernya sombong, tapi ga nemuin kata bahasa inggris yang cocok, so,angep aja arrogant=sombong=merasa hebat dimata orang lain.)........


The answer is Big NOOOO.....!!!!!
yeah...

usually the pray that doesnt say yes to the 3 question above is very easy to come true....


hahahaha... exciting huh..maybe you dont even realize it, but its true.....
the wish that comes from the heart and not from our brain, such as in the example above is very easy to come true...




Second sources... from the quantum ikhlas book

this book is very recommended to read, not just for muslims, but another religion as well.
this book explain about how things in this universe works from another view.
it tells me that actually the whole world is working in one system.. called the quantum system..
God made it that way, so us, humans.... that have feelings can reach for His help...
Quantum Ikhlas explains that the only way to reach for God's help, in this case praying, is only trough our feeling.
so... never pray with your mind.... pray with your feeling...
once again...

Never Pray With Your Mind...Pray With Your Feeling...

that should do it...:D




Source Three..
the book that cite the 3 most important surah in Qur'an...
one of the surah is Al-Ihklas..

so what is it in al ikhlas?

on the second ayah, you will hear that Allah explains that He is where other things in this universe depends on...

this related to the rule number three....
you can't be arrogant.....
not a small piece of arrogances is tolerated when you pray something...
arrogancies won't let us depended to Him...
not even when you have such feeling as if your wish had come true, before it come true, this kind of feeling will prevent your wish from come true...



hehehehe... 
well, this is just a theory afterall...
(it's very hard to prove it scientifically, but my empirical experience had approve it...XD...)


salam santai...


Bryan KL



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